More BDSM in the News – 07/30/2018

If you wanted to put girls in ball-gags, you could have just asked!!
The Kinkiest Scientific Study Ever? Neuro-BDSM
“…the rationale for the experiment was that the ball gag might inhibit the brain’s empathetic response to suffering by preventing facial muscle movements.” (Riiiight….)

Pregnancy and Kink – DO or DON’T??
Can you still take part in BDSM when you’re pregnant?
“Pregnancy, whether you’re kinky or not, shouldn’t get rid of your sex life and it definitely doesn’t have to pause your participation in scenes”

Hey!! The “nillas” are discussing consent!!
What bdsm can teach us all about consent
“A skilled Mistress uses her slaves’ sexual and emotional desire to control them and cement that control of their psyche.”

Well, Damn…I could have told y’all this!!
Men Who Know How To Drive A Woman Wild Do This One Ridiculously Hot Thing
“learning how to have sex in which you channel the polarity between these two energies can take you both to heightened levels of satisfaction.”
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I’m no expert, but I don’t think this counts as a BDSM encounter.
Woman ‘strangled BDSM lover during rough sex’ and chopped up body in Satanic ritual
“The corpse’s arms and legs were severed, as was the penis.”

On a tragic note – what happens when a Top is not focused on the bottom’s safety…
UCLA professor dies in ‘mummification’ ritual at Hollywood executive’s home
“wrapped “head to toe in plastic wrap and gaffer’s tape, with small breathing holes at the nose and mouth,” according to an autopsy report obtained late last week”

 

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Have you ever wondered where all the leather came from?
Let’s Dissect Queer Men’s Longstanding Connection to Leather and BDSM
“But BDSM isn’t so much about the pleasure (or pain) as much as it’s about the experience and the intensity.”

Be Kinky – And Prosper
Kinky Sex Could Be the Secret to Your Success
“A healthy relationship to kink can absolutely be the underlying cause of some people’s success”

“Snow White” with a BDSM twist
Gaultier goes S&M with Snow White ballet costumery
“Snow White is dressed in a toga and the Queen wears a typically Gaultier-esque S&M style ensemble of thigh-high boots and a bustier.”

A prime example of how vanillas misunderstand us. This is self-mutlation, not sadomasochism – and this poor man needs professional help.
Sadomasochist, 30, hacks away at his own penis with a knife after porn video ‘sends him into a frenzy’
“When blood started pouring uncontrollably from his penis, Whisanu panicked and tried to stem the flow before calling paramedics.”

Well written vanilla article on the difference between BDSM and abuse.
There’s a difference between kinky and abusive and we need to be clear about that
You cannot be too clear about consent. Talk about it, discuss it over message or email. Ask direct questions. Do not assume. Just because someone is happy for you to slap their face doesn’t mean they’ll be happy for you to pull their hair.

 

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More BDSM in the News!! 05/29/2018

It agers me that violent assholes are trying to use “role play” as an excuse.
The Boundary Between Abuse and B.D.S.M.
“In May, four women told The New Yorker that Eric T. Schneiderman, then the New York attorney general, had assaulted them. Mr. Schneiderman defended himself by claiming he was participating in role play. “

Keep an eye out for this!!
New Web Series Mercy Mistress Explores the Crossroads of BDSM & Asian Femininity
“If we embrace the darker sides of sexual desires, we can let light into those areas and practice in safe, consensual, and meaningful ways.”

Dating a subordinate at work is risky. But I think this guy was stupid.
Lawyer Fired After Sending BDSM Sex Contract To Junior Employee. Naturally He Sues.
“He spanked the subordinate over the desk of a partner who was in court at the time”

As a sensory dep fan, I say “YEAH!!!”
These Arca co-signed headphones are a BDSM cage
“Shaped like a cage, the headphones are designed to completely encase the wearer’s head, and even have a gag-inspired mouth embellishment to keep it accurate to the BDSM fantasy.”

Well, THIS is interesting…
Top cop becomes dominatrix after years of investigating sex crimes
“Calea said she had originally been inspired to become a dominatrix after years of investigating sex crimes for the police.”

 

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More BDSM in the News!! 09/29/2017

China’s BDSM Expert
For sex advice, people in China turn to a 65-year-old female BDSM expert at $15 a pop
“Li Yinhe is known in particular for her research into BDSM, including her book Subculture of Sadomasochism, published in 1998, China’s first book on the subject.”

What’s wrong with “50 Shades”
This is why the BDSM community hates Christian Grey
“People think that Fifty Shades of Grey is real. That’s the problem with it. They think that this is how it actually works.”

“Non-Consensual” rape in World of Warcraft??
The BDSM underworld of the most disturbing ‘World of Warcraft’ sex dungeon
“The article states that a common occurrence at the tavern, for example, is for throngs of naked players to gang up on other players”

Do the vanillas “get it?”
BedPost: Popular culture often misrepresents BDSM
“People often view BDSM as the eroticization of violence because of the leather and chains and that causes a fundamental misunderstanding of kink culture.”

Irish city forcing bar owner to remove “vile” name
BDSM bar to take down contentious sign
The signage on BDSM has been a bone of contention since the bar opened in 2013.

 

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In politics, there is “mud-slinging” – and then…well, I don’t even know what to call this.
Politician sends kinky pic of himself to rival on Facebook
“Labor candidate Strode replied that she was “too boring” to have any skeletons in the closet. It prompted Stone to send her the kinky picture appearing to show him taking part in erotic roleplay with an unidentified female.”

Add this one to your “BUCKET LIST!!”
Flamefest: Man dies and woman found unconscious after kinky sex festival in Tunbridge Wells
“A man was found dead in a tent and a woman airlifted to hospital yesterday after attending an outdoor sex festival.”

Cannabis and Kink – they’re magically delicious!!
How the BDSM Community Integrates Cannabis Into Kink
“BDSM is a tool to alter your consciousness. It takes you to a different place, physically, emotionally, and spiritually. Pot is just like that. You have to know how to use it, and you have to use it wisely. When used the right way, it’s great tool for play”

Like I needed to be told…
Are you a pervert? Yes, you probably are
“BDSM and other non-conventional sexual practices are more familiar than you may know. Research has shown that fetishes and BDSM-like practices are very common in the general population. Normal, everyday people commonly fantasize about BDSM-like experiences.”

“FIN-dom” fanatics… READ THIS!!
Dominatrix charged for extorting married man who tried to end their relationship
“I’ll tell everyone you’ve ever met in your entire life,” the FBI said she allegedly wrote in one message. “I’ll tell the entire state of Michigan. It’s on.”

 

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A look at BDSM in the News

BDSM apparently becoming more popular in India, along with sex toys!!
Punjabi women buy most sex toys, sales go up during Navratri in Gujarat: Survey
“The most bought role play costume is that of a nurse, while the most popular kinky product is handcuffs.”

I’ve been saying it for years…and scientists are just catching up!!
BDSM hurts so good — study says it will blow your mind
“It’s a practice that allows you to completely let go of internal and external stress so that you can fully immerse yourself in the present moment.”

A dungeon in the forest – how kinky!
‘Explore pain, experience pleasure and fulfil your fantasies’: Australians among 500 swingers descending on a quaint English town for a debauched forest sex festival
“Festival-goers to Flamefest are encouraged to ‘explore pain, experience pleasure and fulfill their fantasies’ at the ‘mystical site’ in Kent, southeast of London.”

Old-Guard rules gradually eroding away – good or bad?
Inside the Changing Leather Scene
“There’s always been a tension in the leather community between the “old guard” and “new guard.” One has always been more conservative and devoted to tradition; the other more experimental and open to change.”

 

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